Maybe You Should Talk to Someone

#10 in Biography & memoir

Maybe You Should Talk to Someone

Lori Gottlieb

First published 2019Original language EN

8.58.5 / 10
Score out of 10565 ratingsConfidence 79%: this much of the score is the readers’ own
#10 of 85 in Biography & memoir ahead of 89% of the category
432
Pages
about 8 h
Reading time
  • NYT bestseller · 29 weeks on the list, peaked at #4

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About the book

One day, Lori Gottlieb is a therapist who helps patients in her Los Angeles practice. The next, a crisis causes her world to come crashing down. Enter Wendell, the quirky but seasoned therapist in whose office she suddenly lands. With his balding head, cardigan, and khakis, he seems to have come straight from Therapist Central Casting. Yet he will turn out to be anything but. As Gottlieb explores the inner chambers of her patients' lives -- a self-absorbed Hollywood producer, a young newlywed diagnosed with a terminal illness, a senior citizen threatening to end her life on her birthday if nothing gets better, and a twenty-something who can't stop hooking up with the wrong guys -- she finds that the questions they are struggling with are the very ones she is now bringing to Wendell. With startling wisdom and humor, Gottlieb invites us into her world as both clinician and patient, examining the truths and fictions we tell ourselves and others as we teeter on the tightrope between love and desire, meaning and mortality, guilt and redemption, terror and courage, hope and change. Maybe You Should Talk to Someone is revolutionary in its candor, offering a deeply personal yet universal tour of our hearts and minds and providing the rarest of gifts: a boldly revealing portrait of what it means to be human, and a disarmingly funny and illuminating account of our own mysterious lives and our power to transform them.

Description: publisher’s blurb via Hardcover

Where the score comes from

The sources average 8.6 across 565 ratings — not yet many, so the reader vote carries 79% of the weight and the rest pulls toward the Biography & memoir average of 8.2. That is how 8.5 comes out.

SourceAverageRatingsWeight
Open Library7.735 6%
Hardcover8.7530 94%

Reader voices

The most-liked reviews on Hardcover (credited to their authors).

  • “This was the right book at the right time, with lots of thoughts worth revisiting and remembering.”

    ★ 4/5BluebirdPI on Hardcover

  • “I did not expect to love this as much as I did. Easy and engaging read, that got me multiple times laughing out loud or sobbing in the train. I’ve highlighted so many phrases and paragraphs throughout the book and gained deeper curiosity towards my own patterns.”

    ★ 5/5666thwavefeminist on Hardcover

Frequently asked

How long is Maybe You Should Talk to Someone?

It has 432 pages — longer than 80% of the ranked books in Biography & memoir.

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